I AM HUMAN!!

Been thinking about relationships and what they mean in this society of ours. Far to often I hear men speak of having girlfriends and even wives but still for a lack of betters words fuck women on the side. I question this logic or lack there of because it's selfish and lustful in nature; As human beings, I feel we all are generally self-centered and lust as well as selfishness are subsidiaries of our me first motivations. I often think about the men who tell me this and how they would react if their significant others behaved in such a manor? Women are usually judged by the harshest standards and try to maintain a form of faithfulness to men who want their cake and desire to eat it as well(I HATE cliches). However, man questions can derive from the nature of human beings....are we to follow our essence and lead lives in which it's socially acceptable to "do your thing on the side?" We are a group of beings in this country who have grown up loving options whether utilized or not; leave a cheating spouse or stay...move on to a new partner to experience similar situations, after all we are all human and suffer from being just that!!!!