Thursday, March 24, 2011

What women want?

I have stumbled upon this nugget of truth throughout my years of probing the female psyche; women want what they want period! Regardless of how anyone on God's green Earth may feel, women truly embrace the theory that "It's my life and I don't care how anyone feels." This fact is made clear with the approach women take toward relationship. It is a "me first attitude" that comes across as blatant and reckless. Reckless in the sense that a woman would have a child with a man knowing full well he is against the notion of having children with her. This man is then expected to love his "baby mama" and support the off spring that was created through shame and regret. I love women; my sister is a woman, however, if the most selfish decisions aren't made by these creatures, who egos go unchecked and reach uncharted levels with "ready made" excuses such as " my biological clock s ticking" and the most absurd, "I didn't want to be an old mother." Such reasoning is usually followed by asinine statements such as "I'm okay with being a single mother." I have visited this topic several times and have come to the conclusion that I have been wrong with my approach to this recent generation of women and their issues. Such behavior has been festering for decades. However, I cannot tolerate the fact a woman will force a relationship whether it is beneficial or not just because she desires to be in one. Some may argue that men can be just as determined and misguided in their pursuits of what appears to be happiness; I suppose I will leave that topic for another day.