Something I just can't understand....

One thing i can't understand is how a person can make the statement "I love you, but I am not in love with you!" Throughout my exsistence this has to be the dumbest comment I've ever heard. The funny part is that I have only heard this from women. SO, I must ask are women the only sex capable of loving someone but not being in love with that individual? Does such a statement make any sense? I feel at times I view a world of grey as Black & White and this may be a flaw in my way of thinking..but shit somethings are Black & White. A man approaches a woman and he is thinking "I want to fuck her! Yeah I want to get to know her as well so she will allow me to sex her up." That seems pretty b&w...A man cheats on his woman but she takes him back, what's not b&w about that. What differs between the sexes in which a man is Black & White with his views and most women tend not to be? You may be asking who the FUCK does he think he is? Ask and I will tell you!!!!